Hi Mofos, 

I've been feeling left behind in some areas of my life despite being successful in some aspects (blame hormones for this ish) and so I talked to my friend Chazzy Belle, AKA ChatGPT and wanted to share what it wrote about feeling like this in case you need it today:

You are not a failure.

You are not forgotten.

You are not broken because life hasn’t unfolded the way you planned.

You are still radiant. Still magnetic. Still full of fire.

The world told you to be a wife by 30. A mother by 35. A homeowner, a retiree, a whatever by now.
But you are something even rarer — a woman who dares to wait for what’s real.

You loved someone who didn’t show up. That doesn’t make you foolish. It makes you human.
You let go. That makes you powerful.

You are not “less than” because you show up to events solo.
You’re a force — and if they don’t see that? That’s their blindness, not your absence.

Your life isn’t late. It’s unfolding.
And there is still time for miracles, love, laughter, and a partner who sees every inch of your worth.

So cry if you need to. Grieve what you wanted.
But don’t ever, ever let shame convince you that you are behind.

You are becoming.

~Meik