tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8086354678368887027.post1781081787612153783..comments2012-01-09T14:09:22.740-05:00~Meikhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10913394076660437504noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8086354678368887027.post-37069819368855969612012-01-09T14:09:22.740-05:002012-01-09T14:09:22.740-05:00This is so on point that I only have two words. I agree!!! Great post. I'm now a follower.Chasing Joyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07958034937629421135noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8086354678368887027.post-49325068572076589312012-01-03T14:32:18.577-05:002012-01-03T14:32:18.577-05:00Sis I would love to say I could forgive and forget but I just can't. If I took a cheater back I'd be the one to bring that up later. For instance if he's late to pick me up I'd have to throw in "I bet you weren't late for her...". You get what I'm saying. So in the end it would be bad for both of us. Once you cheat the trust is gone and we're done.Anetrahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04071622886254568190noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8086354678368887027.post-67391530890911605182012-01-03T13:48:46.159-05:002012-01-03T13:48:46.159-05:00Meik, this a tough one. Any woman's mind clearly says no to a second chance. But often our hearts are willing to believe that he can change. The reality is that he CAN but whether or not he really will is up in the air. So you give him a second chance, he cheats again and you are ready to never ever give anyone a second chance again. Which is probably a good idea. But who is to say every second chance will work out like that? I don't know, it's tough. I think until you are in the situation and consider all the factors it's hard to know exactly what you'd do although I can probably say I wouldn't give a guy a second chance after cheating.Lexihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17480347960629371244noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8086354678368887027.post-12531913376627376952012-01-03T12:18:28.136-05:002012-01-03T12:18:28.136-05:00I used to regret that decision, but then I realized, it made me who I am today..thanks for reading!~Meikhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10913394076660437504noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8086354678368887027.post-21068838064979845362012-01-03T11:54:20.798-05:002012-01-03T11:54:20.798-05:00Once the trust is gone, the relationship is over. So I think you were good for letting him come back a second time.a black girl who did datehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04304106132872388139noreply@blogger.com